That su , theo xu huong, cuoc song hien tai,… chuan muc cuoi cua cac cap doi voi quan niem moi me hon xua, thoang hon va khong con mang net van hoa viet nam luc xua, vay dau co the goi dung ve chuan muc cuoi theo phong tuc truyen thong va phong tuc nhung van mang net hien dai, pha cach ….. yeu la cuoi va suy nghi chin chan moi cuoi no khac nhu the nao ..?

theo quan diem cua toi:
1/ khai niem khi yeu mot nguoi khac voi suy nghi la cuoi mot nguoi.
2/ tat ca se la 1 trang cuoc doi khac voi nhieu thu phai lo toang.
3/ ca hai khi lay nhau co that su hieu duoc van de can nhau chia se va hieu nhau trong giai doan kho khan nhat cua cuoc hon nhan.
4/ khi trai nghiem va thong cam cho nhau, lieu ho con co the tha thu , bao dung cho nhau khong ….?